Everyone know what is growing up.
And all grow up differently.
Some...
Happy,
Sad,
Torturous,
Blissful,
Lost,
And more... non stop...
When you are an infant,
You are always the apple of your parents' eyes.
You get all the attention.
You get the best,
You get what you want.
And no one dare to bully you.
When you are young,
You still get all the above...
Provided you are still the only child,
If not more than fifty percent of it will be shared.
And either the younger one bully you or being bully in the dark.
When you start attending school,
You still get the above...
And get more...
MORE...
Expectation,
Restriction.
When you are a teenage,
Still gets all the above.
And MORE and MORE:
EXPECTATIONS,
RESTRICTION.
This will continue till u reach 21..
When you are 21,
You will never get all the above.
Only...
Expectations,
Restrictions,
Will accompany you in your growing up till u reach heaven.
Parents always think.
You are old enough.
You do not need me by your side.
You must meet the expectation...... non stop .....
Why...
In the process of growing up,
You get lesser warmth and love,
You only get expectations and restrictions.
Is this growing up?
Is it true that when you grow up,
Parents can give u lesser attention,
lesser concern.
Yes, I know.
You dont show it out.
In heart you still care about us.
BUT...
Do you know we need it to be show out.
We need the warmth from it,
This is growing up in a family.
I hate,
I really hate this sentence:
"You are always a child in our heart."
No you parents never ever mean that if you said this before!!!
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